Comparison, a dangerous game

Comparison, a dangerous game

Comparison, a dangerous game

The fluorescent lighting reflected off the glossy covers of the magazines like a beacon, beckoning my attention to the strategically placed magazine rack at the check out counter.  The super sexy model on one cover smiled back at me as if she had been waiting to catch my gaze.

Her long legs reminded me shorts and swimsuit season was only a short while away and my mind immediately went to the winter accumulated pounds that were wrapped around my own thighs and waistline.

Getting rid of that is going to take some work, I thought to myself.

Feeling a bit discouraged and rather inferior to Miss “Super sexy”, I checked out my groceries and strolled to my car.  Within those few minutes, not only had I played the comparison game, I had played and lost.

You see, although we do not always intend to play this game, it happens to the best of us.  Piloted by our own insecurities, we are often tempted to measure ourselves against the looks, accomplishments and popularity of those around us.

So dangerous is this game, it can cause us to gaze at others not only from a point of admiration but from a point of envy and even jealousy, the perfect recipe for discontentment.

Our own blessings become miniscule and our lack magnified.  Comparison steals our hope, our joy and before long, our very purpose.


We can miss out on future blessings and the experience of trusting in our wonderful Savior as our focus becomes self-centered and, at times, destructive.  So busy are we trying to keep up with the “competition” we end up pushing God off to the side lines, no longer trusting in His love and providence, no longer mindful of His grace.

Have you found yourself playing this seemingly unavoidable game?

In a world of Instagram and FB, we are constantly pressured to exhibit our perfect moments, all too often hiding our mess from the world.  Everyone giving the impression they have it all together because they think everyone else’s life is perfect.

So often, we get to a place where we don’t even know our own identity any more because the standards we are using as our measuring stick are many times fake.

The Solution?

For me, it was sitting in my car, mulling over my defeat to super sexy when I was reminded of one of my favorite bible verses from Psalm 139:14

“I will praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”

Yes, I knew that full well but in a moment of weakness, I had let my guard down and I was viewing the world through my insecurities rather than through God’s grace.  So I had a few extra pounds!  I knew what I needed to do to get rid of it, both to improve my own self image and for health reasons.  Then after the hard work I could celebrate my accomplishment.

“Each of you must examine your own actions.  Then you can be proud of your own accomplishments without comparing yourself to others.”  Galatians 6:4-5

With help of Holy Spirit, I needed to be reminded again, as we all do, that not only am I God’s creation but His opinion and view of me far exceeds the size of my waistline.  We are all uniquely wired with our own set of gifting to serve a particular purpose….His purpose.

No matter how we look at it, there will always be someone younger, prettier, thinner or more talented and artistic than us.  So let us stop comparing our self to others and start allowing God to use our uniqueness to accomplish His work.  Let us learn to live comfortably in our self.  Let us learn to live a life of gratitude to God, because in Christ, in whom our true identity lies, our real worth and value compares to none.bobCome on, let us journey together by faith today.  God bless you!

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About Lureta

Jesus lover. Wife, mother, RN, blogger. Pushing past fear on the journey to encourage and inspire others to pursue our extraordinary God.


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  1. I have definitely found myself playing (and losing) the comparison game. Thank you for your honesty and healthy methods to avoid. I love the scripture you chose. Very powerful.

    1. Hello Liz
      God’s word is always the perfect tool to combat the enemy. It is always up to us to know it and use it at all times. Blessings to you!

  2. I didn’t struggle with insecurity till after I got married, which is funny because my husband has always assured me that he loves everything about me! I won’t even LET myself look at those magazines! 😀 It’s all about perspective, seeing ourselves the way God does, you’re right!

    1. Sometimes there are little things hidden in the reservoir of our hearts and the enemy will be ever so subtle in pulling it out inch but inch with his lies and deceit. Oh how we need to always hang tightly to God’s word on who we are on Christ.

  3. I needed this today. My friends and I are vacationing, and I just realized I’ve spent a large amount of time comparing myself to my younger self, as well as comparing myself to the beautiful women surrounding me. Your article is truly God inspired. Thanks so much!

    1. Thank you! I’m blessed to know this article has been a source of inspiration. I pray we start seeing ourselves as God sees us so we can pursue our purpose.

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